beauty is found in the eye of those who are ...

squeezed, squashed, stepped on, smushed and otherwise pulverized: (lol)

while chauffering my Mistress back and forth from a party recently, She complimented me by saying that i'm "malleable" and well, that just really made my night. :>)

for those of Y/you that have no clue as to what that word means, here it is:

"malleable"

- capable of being worked, shaped or changed by pounding, rolling, or hammered under pressure and
able to withstand blows without breaking. :>)

- easily manipulated, influenced, led, yet compliant through means of control.

- able to be changed or adjusted according to particular or varied needs.


awesome!
thank you so much, Mistress! :>)

You do such an extensive and thorough job of keeping me in my place. i'm appreciative of all the opportunities You extend to me to serve and grateful for Your patience, forebearance and friendship.

Your squishy fish,
pescado

2 quotes to ponder ...

i don't know, but for some reason both of these quotes really spoke to me, so i had to post them. 

... from an anonymous meme:

"Anyone can love a rose, but it takes a great deal to love a leaf.

It's ordinary to love the beautiful, but it's beautiful to love the ordinary." 

and of course this is for me :>)

if you ...

give a Mistress a cookie,

but then steal it back from Her,
                                                                           
She is liable to smack and crack

your knuckles so hard with a spoon, that you just may bleed for Her.

and, that is indeed the sweetest beat, ... er treat of all,

next to the emerging bruise, of course.

gender roles and Dominance ... Blog repost by Stabbity at Not Just Bitchy

within the culture of bdsm many of U/us struggle with the identities that W/we have subscribed to, believe and strongly identify with. http://www.notjustbitchy.com/gender-roles-and-dominance/

Unfortunately, it doesnt help that society has a prescribed roadmap for U/us to follow in terms of acceptable Feminine and masculine roles which makes it doubly hard for U/s to embrace who W/we really are and want to be.. i agree that submissive men probably have it the hardest. W/we aren't truly even considered to be human or worth anything at all. just shit to be kicked around or wimps, made to feel inconsequential and subsequently inferior. Dominant Women, on the other hand while allowed to

embrace being aggressive and powerful in the bedroom are also shafted by being considered only kink worthy objects, whose only practical value  and use is for fetish and pleasure. here is an excellent blogger post by Stabbity .which confronts these gender stereotypes and lays to rest preconceived notions of gender roles and dominance.... enjoy ...

wow! awesome words here!

this is so very true. powerful words indeed!

simon curtis - flesh (lyrics)

after i heard this. i just about melted and totally disintegrated into submissive goop. i couldn't believe how these powerful lyrics were speaking to me right where i am living now, today. this is just an absofuckinglutely, amazing song that speaks of the passion and fire ignited between a Dominant and submissive. it is hot, compelling, powerful, and extremely erotic and made my heart actually feel like it was pounding through my chest. the lyrics are utterly dark, primal and raw. it speaks of wanton sadistic pleasure, passion and masochistic overload, into an induced subspace where W/we all hope to finally be. ~enjoy~