gender roles and Dominance ... Blog repost by Stabbity at Not Just Bitchy

within the culture of bdsm many of U/us struggle with the identities that W/we have subscribed to, believe and strongly identify with. http://www.notjustbitchy.com/gender-roles-and-dominance/

Unfortunately, it doesnt help that society has a prescribed roadmap for U/us to follow in terms of acceptable Feminine and masculine roles which makes it doubly hard for U/s to embrace who W/we really are and want to be.. i agree that submissive men probably have it the hardest. W/we aren't truly even considered to be human or worth anything at all. just shit to be kicked around or wimps, made to feel inconsequential and subsequently inferior. Dominant Women, on the other hand while allowed to

embrace being aggressive and powerful in the bedroom are also shafted by being considered only kink worthy objects, whose only practical value  and use is for fetish and pleasure. here is an excellent blogger post by Stabbity .which confronts these gender stereotypes and lays to rest preconceived notions of gender roles and dominance.... enjoy ...