some thoughts on my perception of bdsm

 

i have come to the realization that BDSM in the realm which i have experienced, isn’t just about sex. it is a tight, emotional bond that helps break down the walls and psychological boundaries by exploring the physical ones. essentially, O/ones role is built upon the basis and foundation of who W/we are and who W/we are about to become from O/our experiences under the lens and focus of BDSM.
... For a submissive, it means a true act of affection and oneness that seeks to consume your heart and soul.
... For the dominant,it means taking over someone completely that You feel affection for and overpowering him. it fulfills You and produces creative energy which in turn manifests itself over the submissive.

for both, it is the act of giving essential parts of O/oneself to the other through power, trust, control, acceptance and finally submission.

of course ... i could be just full of shit trying to rationalize what i have experienced.