From Femdomme News
Had a great conversation with an amazing 22 year old girl yesterday. I was asking her about self defense and what she would do if she got an attacker to the ground, and she said ``I would stomp on his groin to incapacitate him, and then start kicking the shit out of his face''. I immediately got a hard on and kept asking questions like: `` would you kick him until he was unconscious or dead''?
She was amazing and I was not as coy as I thought as she immediately started asking me why I was asking such questions and did I want her to kick me etc.
I told her she could feel free to kick me the same way she would kick the rapist. She responded: `` I'll kick you as hard as you want and I will kick the living shit out of your face, but you have to sign an injury waiver''. She had on clear plastic high heel shoes with her red toenails sticking out. She was gungho saying she always wanted to know what it felt like to kick a guy to death and/or kick him unconscious. I could not believe it as she was real hot and got real serious when she was describing what she would do to the guy.
To make a long story short we went back to my house and she sat in a chair and had me sit on the floor with my head against the wall and she just started blasting my face with her feet. After about 10 minutes my head was spinning and I thought it was over when she said: ``ok, before I really kick your teeth in, lets sign a waiver or something''. I kinda freaked out because she had really kicked the shit out of me already and yet, she felt she hadn't really even started yet!!!
When I declined she called me a pussy and faggot and kinda got mad because she really thought she was going to kick the living shit out of me. We came to an understanding when I offered to suck on her toes. She enthusiastically agreed and bent over the back of the chair and told me to suck on her toes. She wanted to peer on my face but I said no way.
My face is still sore from her kicking.
What modern women want: a beta male
By Kate Mulvey (The Sunday Times)
Tue Oct 7th, 2010
Men are surrendering in the sex war, taking on the supporting role
Last week I went to dinner with an eligible doctor. As we were finishing the main course, I struck up conversation with the owner (Marco) in Italian – I speak five languages. My date nearly choked on his linguini and spent the rest of the date mute. I had committed the worst dating faux pas: I had outshone my suitor.
Yet it would seem I am not the only woman who is wondering whether it is time to hang up her brain and turn into a Stepford Datee. In America research shows successful young women are hiding their accomplishments for fear that their academic achievements and financial kudos will scare off potential suitors.
And it is no different here. Researchers from Aberdeen, Bristol, Edinburgh and Glasgow universities discovered that high-IQ women saw marriage prospects fall dramatically, but men with high IQs had little trouble finding a mate. They found that for each 16-point rise in a woman's IQ, her marriage prospects declined by 40%, but the man's chances of marriage increased by 35% with each rise.
The widespread view is that accomplished women are at a disadvantage in the marriage market because men start out by saying they want a strong, powerful woman and then end up running off with the secretary. I should know. A few years ago my Swiss banker found my conversation too arty and cast his attentions on a lovely Spanish girl who worked in his office.
Should women pander to male insecurities? Self-help guides exhort us to flatter the male ego; don't talk too much and let him make all the jokes if you want him to like you. Well I would rather skewer my eyes out than change my personality.
So what is the answer? Someone has to surrender in the sex war. Should women soften their image if they want to marry an alpha? Since the beginning of time anthropologists have told us women are programmed to seek a mate who can provide for her.
We all witnessed the implosion of the 1980s power couple. As women flexed their shoulder pads all you got were stressed couples who were battling for the same role and trying to find a slot in their diaries for dinner.
But now there is a third way. The second-generation feminists – that is, women in their twenties and thirties – have found a new way to solve the alpha-beta paradox. The 21st century sisters have a terrifyingly clear agenda when it comes to finding a mate. They map out their life plans early: rise to the top of their chosen career, get the smart house, the cute kids and curl up in bed with a loving beta male. The alpha girl doesn't need Mr Alpha to sweep her off her feet and buy her a condo in town; she has enough money to do that herself. She is successful, confident and she wants a caring man who can pick up some of the domestic slack.
Penelope, 34, a high-earning public relations executive, is married to an actor. They are both comfortable acknowledging that the wife is the chief breadwinner. So it makes sense that it is her career that gets fast-tracked. "John is really irreverent and playful and after I have had people kowtowing to me all day, it is nice to be brought down to earth with a joke."
Does he mind playing the supporting role? "I love it that my wife is this go-getting career woman. I have never been into status anyway, so I don't feel emasculated by the fact that she earns way more money than me."
To better understand this role reversal, we have to look at the key social changes in the past 30 years. Since 1975 the number of women entering the workforce has increased by a third and in 2005 one-third of all managers were women. Women are better educated – there are more women with advanced degrees than before – and there are now more female trainee lawyers and doctors than male ones.
This creates a shift in the way women view marriage. With their increased earning power, women are less hung up on the Jane Austen model of finding a providing husband. "Women can choose a man who has charm and looks, instead of going for the grumpy, ugly alpha just because he is solvent," says Penelope. So is this a liberating thing?
For young women this shift in economic power has given them new choices. But what about the men? While it is true that many older men seem stuck with the "man as success object, woman as sex object" idea and would never contemplate marrying a ball-breaking alpha earner, men in their twenties and thirties seem to be redefining masculinity.
Having grown up with successful women such as Margaret Thatcher and Madonna as role models, and with popular culture awash with fantasies of all-powerful women, from Lara Croft to Buffy the Vampire Slayer, men are not so uncomfortable with the woman in control. This value system does recognize the trend of female supremacy, which while not as yet the norm seems to be pointing the way for future relationships.
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